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Birthday parties

A birthday cake from scratch (vanilla or chocolate layers, a sheet cake for a crowd, cupcakes, and an egg-free, dairy-free cake), buttercream and simple decorating, plus pizza and party food kids love. Tell the planner how many are coming and when, and it works out how much to make, how many cakes to bake, and a countdown from two weeks out to cleanup.

🧾 Your menu

Check what you’re serving. The shopping list adds it all up for your guests: one serving of cake each, and the party food scaled to the crowd. A simple spread is checked to start.

Guests (kids and grown-ups)12
The cake, from scratch
Frosting and toppings
Pizza and party mains
Finger foods
Fruit, vegetables and dips
Drinks and frozen treats
πŸ“… Put this menu in my meal planner

The meal planner takes the whole menu in one tap: pick the party day on its calendar, then set how many are coming. From there you can print recipe cards and the list by store section.

Shopping list

The shopping list appears here once the recipes load.

Amounts round up to what stores sell. Check your pantry for spices and staples.

🎈 Party planner

Enter the day, the time and who’s coming. The amounts are planning guides from common party practice; round up if your crowd has big appetites.

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Countdown

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The countdown uses the dishes checked in your menu. Oven times are for one oven, latest first; bake cakes the day before so the party day is easier.

The cake, from scratch

Layer cakes for the table, a sheet cake for a crowd, cupcakes to hand out, and an egg-free, dairy-free cake that everyone can share.

Frosting and toppings

One batch fills and frosts a two-layer cake or 24 cupcakes. A sheet cake takes about 1Β½ batches.

Pizza and party mains

Pizza is the classic. Kids love making their own; a grown-up runs the oven.

Finger foods

Small bites people can eat standing up. Serve on several small platters and swap in a fresh one rather than topping one up (USDA).

Fruit, vegetables and dips

Bright, fresh and kid-friendly. Keep cold dishes on ice.

Drinks and frozen treats

Ice pops can be made days ahead.

πŸ§‘β€πŸ³ Make it from scratch

Make the pizza dough, the cake flour and powdered sugar, butter, whipped cream, marinara and ranch from scratch. Each page scales to what your plan needs.

🎨 Frost and decorate, simply

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Side view. A thin crumb coat first traps the crumbs, so the final coat stays clean.

Frost a layer cake

  1. Cool completely. Warm cake melts frosting. Trim a domed top flat with a serrated knife if you like.
  2. Anchor it. Dab frosting on the plate and set the bottom layer on it. Slide strips of parchment under the edges to keep the plate clean.
  3. Fill. Spread about ΒΎ cup of frosting over the bottom layer. Set the top layer on it upside down, so the flat bottom is on top.
  4. Crumb coat. Spread a very thin layer over the top and sides. It’s fine if crumbs show. Refrigerate 20 minutes.
  5. Final coat. Pile frosting on top and push it out to the edges and down the sides. Smooth with an offset spatula or a butter knife, or make swirls with the back of a spoon. Pull out the parchment.
A piping bag from a zip-top bagSpoon frosting into a sturdy zip-top bag, push it into one corner, twist the top and snip off a small corner. Squeeze from the top. Great for cupcake swirls, dots and writing names.
ColorGel food coloring gives bright colors with a drop or two. Start small; colors deepen as they sit.
Easy decorationsA ring of berries, a border of sprinkles pressed onto the sides, chocolate chips in the shape of the age, or a paper stencil dusted with powdered sugar or cocoa.
Let the kids decorateFrost the cupcakes and set out bowls of sprinkles and fruit. Each guest decorates one; it doubles as a party activity.
CandlesA grown-up lights the candles and stays close. Keep hair, sleeves and paper decorations back, and blow them out and take them off before cutting.
Cutting a round cakeFor thinner party slices, cut a circle about 2 inches in from the edge, slice the outer ring into 1-inch slices, then cut the inner circle into wedges.

πŸ₯š Allergy-friendly swaps

Ask families about food allergies when you send invitations, and plan at least one cake everyone can eat. Packaged foods must list the nine major allergens: milk, eggs, fish, crustacean shellfish, tree nuts, peanuts, wheat, soybeans and sesame. Ingredients change, so read every label, every time (FDA). Bakery and unpackaged foods may not be labeled; ask.

Swaps for the cakes and frosting
AvoidingTry this
Eggs and milkThe egg-free, dairy-free chocolate cake has neither (it does have wheat). Doubled, it makes about 20 cupcakes.
MilkMake the chocolate cake or cupcakes with a plant milk. For frosting, use vegetable shortening or a plant-based butter stick and plant milk. Check labels: some margarines contain milk.
Wheat or glutenA cup-for-cup gluten-free flour blend that contains xanthan gum works in the vanilla cake and cupcakes. Use clean pans and utensils.
Peanuts and tree nutsEvery cake and frosting here is made without nuts. Check chocolate chips, sprinkles and candies for nuts or β€œmay contain” warnings, and leave pecans off the sheet cake.
SesameHummus contains sesame (tahini). Use ranch or another dip, and check bread and bun labels.

Keep the allergy-safe cake on its own plate with its own knife, and serve it first. Label dishes on the table so guests and parents can check.

🌑 Party food safety

On the table (USDA)

  • Food sits out for no more than 2 hours. After that, refrigerate it or throw it away. The planner shows the time.
  • Keep hot food at 140Β°F or warmer (a slow cooker or warming tray helps) and cold food at 40Β°F or colder (set dishes in bowls of ice).
  • Serve on several small platters. When one empties, swap in a fresh one from the kitchen rather than adding food to a platter that’s been out.

While baking (FDA)

Don’t eat or taste raw cake batter or cookie dough, and don’t let kids lick the spoon: raw flour and raw eggs can carry germs. The same goes for using raw dough as play clay.

Cooking temperatures (USDA)

  • Chicken tenders: 165Β°F.
  • Hot dogs, and leftovers reheated: 165Β°F, steaming hot.
  • Burgers: 160Β°F.

Little guests

For toddlers and preschoolers, cut hot dogs, grapes and cherry tomatoes into small pieces; whole, they are choking hazards for young children (CDC). Have kids sit down to eat.

After the party

Refrigerate leftovers within 2 hours, in shallow containers, and eat them within 3 to 4 days. A cake with cream cheese frosting goes in the refrigerator.

πŸ“œ Cake and candles

Children’s birthday parties with a cake and candles, called Kinderfest, were a custom in Germany by the 18th century, with a candle for each year. The custom spread to Britain and America in the 1800s, as cheaper sugar, baking powder and home ovens made frosted layer cakes possible in ordinary kitchens.