When you say thank you, you hope the other person hears it. So when someone thanks you, you answer.
Key idea
When someone thanks you, say “You're welcome” or “Glad to help!”
Why it works
Thank you and you're welcome go together, like a ball thrown and caught. The answer tells the other person, “I heard you, and I was happy to help.”
Other good answers are “Sure!” and “Any time!” Say it with a smile, looking at the person.
Worked example: Let's practice
Leo helps Grandpa Walt carry a bag. Grandpa says, “Thank you, Leo!” What does Leo say?
- Grandpa said thank you.
- Leo answers so Grandpa knows he heard.
- A short answer is all it takes.
Answer: “You're welcome, Grandpa!”
Common mistake
Saying nothing, or saying “thank you” right back. Thank you is said by the person who got help. You're welcome is said by the helper.
For the grown-up. Play “catch”: you say “Thank you,” your child says “You're welcome,” then switch. Toss a soft ball with each line to make it a game. Then thank your child for real help during the day and wait for the answer.