A visit ends with goodbye. There is one more thing a good guest says before leaving.
Key idea
Before you leave a visit, find the grown-up and say “Thank you for having me.”
Why it works
The grown-up host invited you, made snacks, and watched over you. A thank-you tells them you noticed.
If you went to a birthday party, you can say, “Thank you for the party!” If you slept over, you can say, “Thank you for having me over.”
Worked example: Let's practice
Ruby's birthday party at Ruby's house is over. What can Leo say before he leaves?
- Ruby's family gave the party.
- Leo finds Ruby's mom or dad.
- He thanks them and says goodbye to Ruby.
Answer: “Thank you for having me! Happy birthday, Ruby!”
Common mistake
Thanking the friend but forgetting the grown-up who hosted. The parent made the playdate happen too.
For the grown-up. Arrive a minute early at pickup so your child has time to find the host. In the car, say how proud you are when they remember on their own.