We start a visit with hello. We end it with goodbye.
Key idea
When you leave, say goodbye to the people you were with. If you were visiting, thank your host too.
Why it works
A goodbye tells people, “I liked being with you.” Leaving without a word can make them think something went wrong.
Goodbyes can be short. Here are some to try:
- “Bye! See you soon!”
- “Goodbye! I had fun.”
- “Thank you for having me!”
Worked example: Let's practice
Grandma June is leaving after a visit. Mia is playing with blocks. What should Mia do?
- Grandma came to see Mia.
- Mia stops playing and goes to the door.
- She says goodbye and something kind.
Answer: Mia says, “Bye, Grandma! Come back soon!”
Common mistake
Running off without a word when it is time to go. Even when you are in a hurry, a quick “Bye! Thanks!” takes one second.
For the grown-up. Give a five-minute warning before leaving so your child has time to finish and say goodbye. On the way out, prompt with a question rather than an order: “Who do we say goodbye to?”