Getting a gift is exciting! You know to say thank you. Opening a gift kindly takes one more step.
Key idea
When you open a gift, look at the giver, say thank you, and say something kind, even if it is not what you hoped for.
Why it works
The giver thought about you and chose the gift for you. Thank you tells them you are glad they thought of you.
Worked example: Let's practice
Ruby gives Leo socks for his birthday. Leo hoped for a toy. What can he say that is kind and true?
- Leo is a little surprised.
- Ruby chose the socks for him.
- He thanks her for thinking of him.
Answer: “Thank you for thinking of me, Ruby!”
Common mistake
Saying “I already have this” or tossing a gift aside to open the next one. The giver chose it for you; thank them for thinking of you.
For the grown-up. Practice with wrapped household objects (a spoon, a sock) and let your child practice a gracious “Thank you!” It is silly, and it works. Open gifts slowly at parties, one giver at a time.