Young ChildrenAt the Table

Napkin on Your Lap

Put your napkin on your lap when you sit down, and use it to wipe your mouth and fingers.

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When you sit down at the table, the first thing to do is find your napkin.

The napkin is for messy fingers.

Key idea

Put your napkin on your lap when you sit down. Use it to wipe your mouth and fingers.

Why it works

The napkin waits on your lap, ready for spills and messy fingers. It keeps your clothes, the table and your hands clean.

When the meal is over, leave your napkin loosely on the table, next to your plate. A grown-up will show you where it goes at your house.

Worked example: Let's practice

Mia sits down to eat. Her napkin is next to her plate. What should she do?
  1. The napkin is next to the plate, on the left.
  2. Mia unfolds it.
  3. She lays it on her lap.

Answer: Mia puts her napkin on her lap.

A simple place setting. The napkin is on the left. When you sit down, it goes on your lap.
A table manners chart to print.

Common mistake

Wiping hands on clothes, or using a sleeve. The napkin is there so we never have to.
For the grown-up. Give your child their own napkin at every meal, even snacks, so it becomes automatic. Cloth napkins are easy to grab and fun to fold.

Practice

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