When you say hello, you often use a name. Grown-ups have special ways to be named.
Key idea
Many grown-ups are called Mr., Mrs., Ms. or Miss with their last name, or Dr. for a doctor. When you are not sure, use that, or ask your grown-up.
Why it works
Using a respectful name shows we care about the person. If a grown-up asks you to use another name, like “Rosa,” using it is polite too.
Worked example: Let's practice
Sam meets the doctor. Her name is Dr. Ada Bell. What does Sam call her?
- She is a doctor.
- Doctors are called Dr. and the last name.
- Her last name is Bell.
Answer: “Dr. Bell”
Common mistake
Calling a teacher or a friend's parent by their first name without being invited to. When unsure, use Mr. or Ms. and the last name, or ask your grown-up what to say.
Customs differ. Families, schools and regions do this differently: Mr. or Ms. and the last name, “Miss Ana” with a first name, “Aunt” or “Uncle” for close friends, first names, or “sir” and “ma'am.” Each is polite where it is used.
For the grown-up. Tell your child what to call the adults in their life, and why your family does it that way. Before visiting a new family, check what they prefer.