When we play games, someone wins and someone loses. After learning about taking turns, here is how to be a good sport either way.
Key idea
A good winner does not brag. A good loser does not pout. Both say “Good game!” and play again.
Why it works
Games are for fun. If winning makes a friend feel bad, or losing makes us quit, the fun stops for everyone.
It is fine to feel sad when you lose, and happy when you win. Good sports feel their feelings and still say kind words.
Worked example: Let's practice
Sam loses a board game to Hana. He feels a little sad. What can he do?
- It is okay to feel sad.
- Sam takes a deep breath.
- He tells Hana “Good game” and asks to play again.
Answer: Sam says, “Good game, Hana! Can we play again?”
Common mistake
Cheering about winning in a way that makes the other child feel bad, or quitting a game when you start to lose.
For the grown-up. Play short games and lose on purpose sometimes, showing how: “Oh, I lost! Good game. Let's play again.” Praise good-sport moments more than wins.