A playdate at a friend's house is a treat. You already know how to say hello and share. A good guest does both.
Key idea
At a friend's house, greet the grown-ups, play nicely, ask before you open or take things, and help clean up before you go.
Why it works
Another family's home is their space. Asking first and helping out shows respect, and it makes them glad to have you back.
If you are not sure about something at a friend's house, just ask a grown-up there: “Is it okay if I…?” Asking is always polite.
Worked example: Let's practice
Hana arrives at Leo's house. Leo's dad opens the door. What should Hana do first?
- A grown-up opened the door.
- Hana says hello to him first.
- Then she says hi to Leo.
Answer: Hana says, “Hello! Thank you for having me.”
Common mistake
Opening closed doors, cabinets or the fridge at a friend's house. In someone else's home, ask first.
For the grown-up. Before a playdate, go over two or three simple rules: greet the grown-ups, ask before you take, help clean up. Afterward, ask the host how it went and praise what went well.