Doors are everywhere: at school, at the store, at home. Here is a small kindness that takes one second. It is like waiting in line: we think about the person behind us.
Key idea
Look behind you when you go through a door, and hold it for anyone close behind, especially someone with full hands.
Why it works
A door that swings shut can bump the next person. Holding it is a small kindness that helps a lot.
Holding a door is also kind for a friend in a wheelchair, someone pushing a stroller, or a person carrying a big box.
Worked example: Let's practice
Ms. Park holds the door open for Leo. What does Leo do?
- Someone helped Leo.
- He goes through.
- He says thank you.
Answer: Leo says, “Thank you, Ms. Park!”
Common mistake
Letting a door swing shut on the person behind you. A quick look back is the whole trick.
For the grown-up. Make it a game: who can be the family's “door helper” today? Hold doors for your child too, and say “You're welcome” when they thank you.