Some things belong to us. Some belong to other people. Just like with sharing, we think about the owner.
Key idea
Ask before you use something that belongs to someone else. Take care of it. Give it back.
Why it works
The owner gets to choose. Asking shows respect for them and for their things.
Asking first sounds like this: “May I use your book?” “Can I borrow your ball? I'll give it back.” When the owner says no, that is okay too. It is still theirs.
Worked example: Let's practice
Leo borrowed Omar's ball. Now it is time to go home. What should Leo do?
- The ball belongs to Omar.
- Leo took care of it while he played.
- Now he gives it back and says thanks.
Answer: Leo gives the ball back: “Thanks for sharing, Omar!”
Common mistake
Taking a toy or crayon because no one is using it right now. If it is not yours, ask first, even if it looks free.
For the grown-up. Ask your child before you borrow their things too: “May I use your scissors?” It shows the rule works for everyone, grown-ups included.