Travel courtesy gets you there; respect for local ways makes you a welcome guest once you arrive. It is when customs differ on the scale of a whole country.
Key idea
Before traveling, learn a greeting and "thank you" in the local language, how people dress for sacred and formal sites, and the local customs on tipping, greetings and shoes. Ask, watch and follow local ways.
Why it works
When you visit another country, you are a guest in it. A few words in the local language say "I took the trouble to meet you halfway," and people almost always respond warmly. Dress customs at sacred places and the local habits on tipping or greetings are how that country puts people at ease. Assuming home customs apply everywhere can embarrass both you and your hosts.
| Before you go, find out | Why it matters |
|---|---|
| Hello, please and thank you in the language | A small effort shows respect |
| How to dress at sacred and formal sites | Many ask for covered shoulders and knees, or for shoes to be removed |
| Tipping customs | Service may be included or tipping not expected |
| Greetings | A bow, a nod, a handshake or a cheek kiss may be usual |
| Shoes indoors | In many homes, shoes come off at the door |
Worked example: Visiting a sacred site
Omar is touring a historic place of worship abroad on a hot day, wearing shorts and a tank top. What should he do?
- Many sacred sites ask visitors to cover shoulders and knees.
- He checks the posted rules before he goes and brings a scarf or long pants to put on.
- He follows any request to remove shoes or keep quiet.
Answer: Dress as the site asks, and follow its rules.
Worked example: First names
In a country where adults are addressed by title and family name, Mia's new colleagues call her "Ms. Brooks." What should she do?
- She follows their lead and uses their titles and family names.
- If they later invite her to use first names, she switches.
Answer: Use titles until invited to do otherwise.
Common mistake
Assuming American customs are universal: tipping, first names, loud talk or shorts in sacred places. Ask, watch and follow local ways. Different is not wrong; it is how your hosts put people at ease.